It's 9:20 pm on July 4th and Nate and Noah are in bed. It's not because they aren't patriotic, it's just that the way most Americans celebrate the 4th is just too hard.
Our family always has a celebration. We used to all go, but it was always a miserable day for Nate and Noah. We were in a house they weren't used to and there were many new people. Both of these factors are difficult. I always struggle with the boys around new people. Their behavior can be unpredictable and not everyone is open and understanding. I usually spend most of the time worrying about their behavior and trying to explain it to new people. They are stressed, I am stressed. Not a good combination.
The local carnivals are also difficult. They are so crowded. Also, they don't allow the boys to jump to the front of the line, so waiting to ride a ride is tough. Put that on top of a hot, crowded group of people and they aren't understanding.
The fireworks are a nightmare. They are so loud that the boys just cover their ears and try to leave. We have even tried to watch them from the car.....didn't work.
So the best solution for us is simple... I stay home with Nate and Noah and Tim takes Nick to the picnic with his family.
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